21y/o 1st time visit experience

I feel like I should share my experience as I was looking at these boards before I went for my 1st time on Saturday.

Let me start this by saying I feel like I am straight, but I LOVE getting head off guys who know what they are doing, so I thought, Whats a better place to go for that than a gay sauna?

I’m not into older guys so I did my research and figured Saturday night would be the best time for there to be some young guys, I ended up going at about 12AM.

I got there all nervous and the guy could probably tell, as I got in he asked if I knew what this place was, I said yeah, he looked at me for a second (must of thought I was straight), then asked if I knew it was a sauna for gay and bisexual men, I nodded again and got signed in as a guest.

I feel like I am good looking normally but as soon as I stepped in I felt like a MODEL. I could feel eyes on me from minute 1, which I guess, is to be expected. I coyly got changed next to the lockers and there were already a few old men popping their head round for a few seconds then walking off.

I head for the showers, having no idea what I was doing, and there was a bloke old enough to be my dad having a shower naked, thats fine I thought i’m not gonna judge, so I took off my towel and wondered to the shower myself, the shower room was pretty small so I tried to not go to the one next to him, he corrected me and told me the one I was trying to use was the cold so I used the one next to him, I stated showering and I could see the several not-so-subtle glances and my dick, felt a little bit uncomfortable but if it was the other way round I would of deffo looked so its ok.

I started wondering around and that is when I could feel the EYES, every area had a few older blokes and the heads were always turned my way, again, to be expected, but the thing I really didn’t like was being followed. There were 1 or 2 older blokes who would seem to follow me like a bad smell to every place I went, to get them separate from me for a bit I had do a 180 and go the other way to where I was going so that they couldn’t follow without it looking obvious to me.

After wondering around I went to the jacuzzi, I went to it whilst empty and within about 5 minutes after I got in it was maximum capacity. I seen a guy who looked under 30 and thought this is my chance to get some head. He made eye contact with me and felt up my leg to my dick, after about 5 mins I bought my dick to the top of the water and he started sucking, I was then definitely centre of attention to people in the pool and people walking by, all while that was happening, the 3 other older blokes in the pool started edging closer and feeling my leg, I had to shake my head and retract from all of them individually, not something you fancy while trying to enjoy head. Anyway, after about 5 mins in the crowded sauna he left, as did I about 5 mins later.

After some more wandering around I seen a couple guys who I would be interested hooking up with, clean, under 30 but I could not see them in any rooms at all. I went to the sauna and a couple other rooms each time having to stop people from feeling my leg and staring intensely at a wall as to not make eye contact.

About an hour later I seen the guy from before who wanted to go to a private room with me, I said yes as I thought this would be the chance to get sucked off, when we got in he trying to get to know my personal life ect and was convinced that I couldn’t only JUST want head, with his persistence making me feel uncomfortable. After about 20 mins and not much head I left that room and thought fuck it i’m leaving, however I was a bit gutted as a couple young guys headed in as I was leaving, I think if I would of stuck with them it would of been a better night.

Basically, I think if I were to go again I would go there with someone so there was garuntee of what you want, and a bit of a shield against the rando’s following you about.

Hope this helped, let me know what you think. If you wanna be the guy I go with msg me, im 21, good looking, slim, ‘bi’.