How appropriate is it to attend and not engage in anything sexual. Acceptable/usually done? Just looking for somewhere to use a steam room/jacuzzi without having to wear a swimsuit but don’t wanna offend or break any unwritten rules by turning down any offers.
Yes. That’d be fine. In my experience, many of the guys who go don’t do anything sexual. If anyone starts touching you up, just remove the hand and say “no thank you”. No one will be offended…