Mature guy….my first time…What to expect..

I’m in that age bracket.
You’ll be fine.
I’ve found most of the men are about this age anyway.
If someone wants something from you it will be obvious.
No females, unfortunately.

If you ever fancy going to the Swingers place around the corner on a Wednesday afternoon I be up for it.Never been before myself

I went to the sauna for the first time a few months ago and I’ve been a couple of times since. I found everyone really chilled out and the staff are so friendly too, the vibe of the place is very relaxed. I mooched around the three floors and I’d say it will probably take a few visits to familiarise yourself with the layout. You could spend a good few hours just chilling if you wanted to, if any guys take a shine to you, they might gently put their hand on your leg say if you’re relaxing in the sauna for example, if you’re not interested, a polite “I’m just chilling today” or something along those lines will do. The odd person might need it spelling out a bit more but they’re few and far between and in no way do you feel pressurised to engage in anything you don’t feel like doing. You can do the same if you like the look of someone, eye contact, smile, gently stroke their leg and you’ll easily work out if it’s going to be reciprocated. Some guys who you’re having a bit of fun with might ask you if you want to go to a private room and there are plenty of those to go around, others having fun together might give you a sign to join in if you want. It’s just so easy to go with the flow. At reception after you’ve paid your entrance fee, they’ll ask if you want a large or medium sized towel, I prefer the medium, the large is a bit too big. When you leave, there’s a shoot in the lockers area to put your towel into. I take flip flop type shower shoes too and I have a bottle of water which I keep in my locker as the heat in the sauna can make you quite thirsty although there is a café in there too. If you need to know where anything is, just ask one of the other guys in there and they’ll happily direct you. There are private rooms which you can book out through a locked door just after you leave the entrance section but I’ve never used one of those, details will be on this website as well as passes where you can come and go. I hope you enjoy your visit.

I had my first visit earlier this week. It’s a great place to chill out and the staff are really helpful. I had a very enjoyable time there and got to play with a number of guys and you don’t need to wear your towel outside of the cafe. People will soon tell you if they’re not interested in playing. The jucuzzi is a great area to naturally get close and intimate as is the small cinema room, which can only fit around four people. If you have someone putting their hand on your thigh and you like it, go with the flow! Just say no thanks if you’re not interested and that should be sufficient. There’s plenty of opportunities for you to enjoy yourself. I’m looking forward to another visit on 19th May.

Codes are bollocks lol no such thing go with the flow wherever you are

I just want to give the Swingers place a try,might be a one off,I prefer Women.But if the ratio as suggested by someone is 35 guys to 1 woman,then I go there with no pre conceptions of a anything happening with a woman! Just as much interested in what it has to offer, particularly like bondage/dungeon type stuff,fucking and being fucked,both sexes

I would go to Swingers place on a Wednesday afternoon never been as said

Thanks for this reply to the thread. It’s helpful in general.
I’m in 40s and have always loved every visit to the sauna. I can only get there about once a month sadly.

Part of the fun in going for the first time is exploring the place. If my memory serves me right though, on the ground floor, there’s the reception area and then when they buzz you in, it opens out into the locker and changing area and through from there is the jacuzzi, some showers and some toilets. There’s also a steam room round a corner bit with more showers and a café through a doorway. You’ll also see seem stairs which lead up to the first floor.

On the first floor is the sauna with a shower and a toilet next to it. The sauna is not huge but you could probably get ten guys in there but when I’ve been in, there have never been that many all at the same time. Along from the sauna are a row of private rooms and a lounge area with sofas and the tv on for chilling out in.

Then you go through a door to the cruising areas and it’s darker through there. To the right under a staircase is the bisexual cinema room which is quite small, enough for four people maximum I’d say. The staircase leads to the third floor but past that you’ll come to a room which has a gloryhole area and round some screened off part a large leather cushion and a sling.

Back out and past there and round a corner is another room with a large leather bed / cushion and what are called Czech gloryholes and I think there’s a cross with straps on it on the wall too. Round from there is another staircase down which will bring you back down to the locker area through another door and on the way down, I think there’s a cottage cruising toilet with urinals in, I have seen it somewhere but I haven’t been down that staircase a lot.

Going up to the third floor from the staircase near the bisex cinema room, is a toilet and then a larger cinema room and then there’s a corridor of more private rooms through another door and a room which has another sling. Each of the private rooms have tvs playing porn and leather seats to sit or lay down on and there are lube dispensers and condoms available.

Back down on the ground floor are the for hire rooms in their own locked corridor near the main reception. I’ve not hired one myself but I have been in one and they’re comfortable, nice bed, fresh sheets, I think there was a tv, a side unit, not en suite but of course you can use all of the facilities in the place.

I like to chill out in the sauna when I first get there as it’s nice to get warm and relaxed and it’s lovely but not too hot where it becomes uncomfortable. I then just mooch around, go up to the cinema room, look around the cruising areas, see if I like anyone and they like me. I sometimes try the steam room but it gets very hot so I can only manage a short amount of time in there and then I’ll be back in the sauna where it feels so nice and soothing and of course I try not to be distracted by any hot guys lol.

I think this is more or less an accurate overview but I might have some information slightly wrong, I’m sure someone else can add to that. Hope this helps a bit and enjoy your stay when you go there.

Condoms is a personal thing,they don’t have to be used I’m a barebacker but have used condoms both ways.Sunday I was there 10 hours (long story) had 10 cocks up me including 7 in a row in around 45 mins) and I fucked 2 guys and had countless blow jobs.My arse was suffering a bit yesterday! Sadly I had no cums(I think) either way.It was a good day though,was on a day pass