Newbie First Time Visit

So this was my first time in ANY gay sauna ever, after becoming bi curious earlier this year and after an eventful few months I’d say I’m full on bi top now. I was a bit nervous but had wanted to visit 52s for a while and finally found the courage. I’m early 40s if anyone cares. I’ve read a load of info on this forum that I’m really grateful for so thought I’d leave my own review for anyone new and nervous. It’s kinda long so if you bore easily then sorry please ignore me.

I turned up about half 12 today (Friday) round the back entrance lol and was buzzed in. The guy on reception was absolutely spot on, he asked if I knew it was a gay sauna and after a laugh I replied yes I sure did. I told him I was a first time visitor and he gave me a quick rundown of the facilities and mentioned the No means No policy and if I had any bother to let him know and he’d sort it out. This was really reassuring and I couldn’t praise the guy enough for putting newbies at their ease straight away and giving a warm welcome. Armed with my locker key and medium towel (think I’ll get large next time as it was small even for me and I’m not massive!) I hit the locker room, quickly undressed and towel on. I’m short sighted and blind as a bad so kept my glasses on and went for a full walkaround of as much of the place as I could find. It’s a real rabbit warren but you soon become accustomed. After I had a good idea of whats where I popped the glasses in the locker as they only get steamed up or soaked in the hot tub then headed out to make use of the facilities. I should say if anyone today thought I was looking at them funny it’s cos I’m really short sighted and it’s all kinda blurry so I sometimes scowl a bit to try and focus lol, and making eye contact at anything over a foot is impossible for me which hinders the meeting process somewhat. Soooo, first off I had a look in the sauna, had some chat with a couple of guys, both really friendly, welcoming to new visitors. I generally prefer to chat but plenty guys don’t and prefer to sit in silence and that’s cool too. Next up was a quick visit to watch some bi porn on tv, then a wander round to find 2 bottoms poking out of the glory hole. Tempting, but I still didn’t feel brave enough for anything like that on a first visit. Next up I had a good chill out in the hot tub, was alone for most of it but it started to pick up and a few guys came in and we all just chilled.

There’s a lot of wandering about and I admit I did about 5 laps of the place when I first got there but once you start using the sauna and hot tub etc you chill right out and get into the vibe. I then hit the sauna again and things were really hotting up in there. There were about 6 of us in and my hand and the hand of the guy next to me slowly started to touch. It was so slow and fuking erotic, especially as we did the same with our feet. We began wanking each other off for a while slow and sensual which was so hot. He asked if I wanted to go elsewhere and I declined, not cos I wasn’t turned on, more cos I loved the vibe of the rubbing and wanking in the sauna, it was so fuking sexy I didn’t want to leave as that sometimes kills the mood. After a shower down I had a good wander round again, watching some gay porn in the large cinema room on the top floor. A guy sat below me and started jacking me off and although I rubbed his body in encouragement he seemed to get spooked and left, not sure why but no problem, we’re all there to start and stop whenever we want. Time had flown by and I’d been there about 3 hours at this point, intending only to stay about 4 hours max as I had other stuff to do and a train to catch home. So I thought I’d squeeze in one last trip to the hot tub. Well I was joined by a younger guy who liked to kiss, and we played with each others cocks then stone me if another young guy didn’t sit the other side of me and before I knew it I was skiing and there were hands and cocks all over. In fact at one point we had a switcharound and a 4th guy joined in. Nobody shot their load I don’t think but it was fun. I took a shine to one of the guys who was sexy as fuk and thankfully it was reciprocated so after some very heavy petting in the tub with his perfect cock in my mouth we moved upstairs to a private room. I didn’t even realise they had locks, for some reason I thought the whole sauna was kind of a free for all so I was chuffed we had some alone time for half an hour or so which was fuking awesome and the perfect end to my first visit. I’m definitely more a one on one than a group man so it’s great the sauna has all bases covered.

So yeah, all in all a big success on my first visit. There was one guy who was a bit too handsy when walking around and didnt take a polite no thanks on the first time of asking, and in fact he then started nibbling my neck so a firmer no thanks was needed but all was OK and he backed off. I should say I’m a shortarse and probably couldn’t fight my way out of a paper bag but never felt threatened. The place felt safe. I did enjoy being one of about 5 guys watching a guy get fuked in the glory holes. And if I hadn’t really found anyone I’d probably have just kept jacking off in the cinema room on the top floor cos it was so spacious and who doesn’t like watching porn?! Facilities were great, plenty of hot showers and soap, toilets, couple of chillout areas. As I said before, some guys like to chat some don’t, I’ll happily chat anything and everything but I guess you gotta just make some smalltalk and see if anyone replies or not. So to any younger nervous lads reading this, I’d just say don’t put it off any longer, give it a try and you will find something there to enjoy. I’m not an expert by any stretch, still a newbie really but I will definitely be going again so if anyone wants a joint visit so they have someone to talk to straight off the bat then give me a shout. I was gutted I had other plans as I would have loved to have stayed longer. The entry fee is really reasonable given how long you can spend there and part of the excitement is not knowing who will turn up and when. I just hope my next visit lives up to the buzz of the first one. Loved it!!!