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Im as far as I know straight guy with a gf and am at the point where I really want to experiment with guys. 3 questions for this.
1) First as I imagine ill be nervous is it ok for me to use the sauna facilities just as a sauna and slow myself into anything. Like if im there for an hour and dont really do anything is that like looked down upon?2) Because I have a gf I wanna know if people there are discrete. Like if I did do something with a guy are they likely to say hi to me in public if they see me as honestly I think that would be the main dealbreaker.
3) Whats the situation with condoms? Like are they available? do I bring my own and carry them around with me?
1) no pressure at all to do anything. First time I went I just spent mainly looking round maybe sat watching porn but didn’t play. Its not frowned upon but if guys like you they may approach you. But if u just say you there to relax or give them a shake of the head generally they will walk away.
2) no hassle with knowing anyone or bumping people into people so I think ud be pretty safe
3) condoms and lube provided in the rooms
Hope that helps
Hi there
Ive been in exactly the same situation as you and can confidently say you will be fine on all the issues you mentioned. First time I went I just took things easy and there was no pressure. I’d be happy to meet up with you there to assuage any concerns you may have.
Hey there what time you going and what day love a hung guy and a group hopefully x
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