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Hi all, I’m 27-year-old, bi/curious guy who’s keen to explore my sexuality and fantasies in a safe, comfortable way. I’m a long-time lurker but first-time poster on this forum, having spent plenty of time considering whether taking the leap and visiting the sauna is the right thing for me!
Ideally, I’d like to find someone in a similar boat as me who I could get to know and then perhaps visit together, knowing that there’s at least someone we know there to take that step! I thought I’d post, rather than just browse, in case anyone else is in a similar situation/of a similar mindset.
I’m really more into guys around my own age, so is there a best time/day that there’s a younger crowd in? I also hear there are new gloryholes? Could someone shed some light on what these are like and the etiquette around them?
Look forward to hearing from people – you seem a really friendly, welcoming community!
I was in your boat years ago, and I realised the best thing to do is ‘just go’.
You are not required to have sex just because you are there. Just make sure you plan a shower, a little time in the sauna, a little exploration of the building, a rest in the cinema and if you are feeling brave, a sit in the jacuzzi. Anything else that you choose to do is a bonus.
I have noticed a younger crowd on a Saturday afternoon, but to be honest its more of a luck thing. I have been on a Thursday afternoon and have been clapping multiple mid 20s cheeks. Plus, if I was to be your FWB, Id rather just fuck you at home. Most guys turning up here as a couple are in it for 3+somes usually. That may be a bit advanced for you right now. 😛
Just brave it alone. Go in for fun and let the ‘fun’ happen naturally.
Hi all, sorry for the delay in responding, life gets busy! Unfortunately, due to work schedule and other life commitments, I’d probably only be able to visit on a Monday daytime, which I expect to be quite quiet and maybe not as many guys as I’d be interested in!
J & Washyboy – Glad to know I’m not alone in this boat. Did you end up going, and what was your experience like?
Saunton – Thanks for your detailed response, I think you make some great points about what to expect, how to approach it and also about visiting solo/with a FWB!
Hi I’m 52 and curious. Thinking of possibly visiting tomorrow, nervous though as many seem to be. Any advice?
Hi Saunton
Interested on meeting up outside of sauna at home I could be your FWB if your interested have you snap
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