Hi Nervous, I have left various posts over the last week if you get the chance to read them it may give you a idea what the place is about and the question section is very informative, if it’s your first time you are not alone, it’s one of the most popular post on this site, I found my my bi side when I was 59 now 62, and I am taking my time finding what I enjoy, No means No and just about everybody will respect you for it. enjoy your visit when you make it.