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Did people experiment before going to the sauna? I definitely want to try but can’t build the confidence to come until I tried something before hand. Did anyone else have this problem or did they just get stuck in?
It depends on whether you’re gay/bi or just bicurious. Judging by your post I’m going to guess you’re just bicurious. If that’s the case then it would probably be best to arrange to meet someone there rather than ger than get to the sauna, pay for entry and then get cold feet. Having someone to show you the ropes will be super helpful.
Hey man, I don’t think your sexual preference (eg gaybi) has anything to do with this really. If you’re inexperienced this is no doubt something you’ve been fantasising about for years and like Anything else it’s nerve destroying to turn from fantasy to reality. So the first time you have a cock in your hand, or anywhere else, will be a big deal and takes a lot of courage to do. So if you’ve never been with a guy, just walking into the sauna would be overwhelming, let alone seeing whats in there. It might be too much dealing with that volume of cock wandering about, let alone learning how the sauna dynamics work or even the layout of the venue and etiquette. I would definitely recommend having played with guys before and if possible go with someone for the first trip to the sauna. They can give you the tour and all the ‘ins and outs’ of the place and it massivethelps the anxiety of just wandering in alone. Just like going anywhere you don’t know anyone eg a party, turning up alone is awkward at first. If you can’t find anyone it’s still well worth just getting that first 10 min of awkwardness out of the way as soon as possible, because from then on it’s no big deal. First time you go in, just get some cock as quickly as possible, which is not a challenge in there lol. I’ll go with you if you really need a wingman😉
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