First of all I’m really sorry for posting this, I know there’s a lot of posts about coming for the first time but the ones I’ve seen didn’t really answer the questions I had and apologies if the questions seem a bit boring and specific, I have anxiety so struggle with social situations and like to make sure I know exactly where I’m going/what to do.
1. If I do show up (which I’m not sure I will yet, this’ll be a first so a bit nervous) I’ll be showing up in a car, where do people park?
2. Is it okay to just watch? Are there designated rooms for this or is it all over?
3. Is it okay to use the spa stuff like the jacuzzi when there are other people in it? Is there a limit?
4. How long do people normally stay for? I noticed there were rooms but wasn’t sure if people stayed in them a lot, also, what time do people normally go?
5. I’m really overweight and pretty ugly, I know this is probably a stupid question but is that okay? I don’t want to show up and kill the mood!
Thanks in advance, really new to this, been bisexual all my life but never really explored this side of things so would appreciate some advice and guidance.