Hey @Rob low
I’ve found making eye contact with, or sometimes touching, a guy helps you work out what he’s after. I’ve also found that ‘fortune favours the bold’ and a lot of guys won’t make the first move … so I’d encourage you to do so. If you’re a good looker, you may be hit on all the time, though LOL
If a guy is wanting to do something you don’t want to do, a polite wave of the hand or a ‘No, thanks’ sees most advances off. VERY occasionally a guy is too persistent and you have to be firmer about it, and if necessary, raise your voice.
Other guys will back you up if you feel you’re being harassed.
If you’re on Fabguys or Kik, we can chat privately.