Monday 30th

Hi bud I’m going tomorrow morning if u want to meet up

I’m visiting the area shortly. Bi curious with limited gay experience so a little nervous.

Considering a visit, probably Wednesday.

Could any regulars advise what to expect/etiquette please. Just ok to watch for a while? Slightly odd question but ok to get hard (which I rather think I might!)and just wander around?

Hi, had my first experience last week, I loved it and at first I just wandered around, went in the sauna, steam room and cinema, but also enjoyed the glory holes. People are nice generally. I think it’s more then fine to get hard and wander around, surely it’s a good sign!

Cool. Love poppers too. Just do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with.

Well I went! Wednesday.

Little nervous to say the least.

Shower then the hot tub. Then wandered around towelled up and had a look round. Ended up in cinema room – originally 4 guys inc me there but couple left and me and the other guy were both wanking ourselves.

He asked if I’d like him to suck me: I said I was new to the scene and would be happy to go with him to a private room and explore my limits. He (sorry I’ve forgotten his name in my nervousness) was really nice, respected all my boundaries.

We went into one of the rooms and played with each other until I asked him whether he’d like me to suck him. He said yes (!) so I just did, felt really natural and we spent the rest of the time playing and sucking in turn until I wanked him off over my body. He then reciprocated.

For a 67 yo bloke with one previous gay experience it was all a bit surreal but I really enjoyed it and it’s confirmed my bisexual status.

I hope the guy involved reads this, recognises himself, and accepts my thanks for being so kind, considerate (and giving such good head).