Yeah, I remember my first time, freaking out wondering whats behind the door. Turns out its just… normal.
Remember on my second visit, 2 guys talking in the dry sauna about theater productions they’d been to and then one of them just casually grabbed the other guys cock, wanked it hard then started blowing him, all while continuing to talk about good shows you really need to see.
As Adam says though, we are all there for the same thing, so that nice chat with someone in the lounge about the gameshow on TV can result in you being ploughed in a private room.