Theres a mix of ages do plenty amof guys around your age. We feel a little anxious the first time we visit, but you see there a very friendly atmosphere @52. The cafe/bar often has a crowd of guys just chatting and most would be happy to show you around.
First thing to remember is you don’t have to do anything to don’t want to or with anybody your not into, just walk away or a polite No will is all you need. If you have any special questions just ask away and I’ll answer as best I can