August 23, 2021 at 9:54 pm #16328TheMajesticParticipant
So after my first visit meeting a couple of nice people and having them show me around I was left to my own devices and after wandering around I was followed and pretty much boxed in at times by voiceless neck breathers. Tonight, my second visit was no different. I was very nervous and didn’t appreciate one guy standing at the jacuzzi asking if I’d go upstairs and waiting for me to come out.
I’ll go back but next time with those who I’ve made friends with and have a more enjoyable experience!August 23, 2021 at 11:08 pm #16330AnonymousInactive
There are some nice guys who go and unfortunately being a younger lad you’ll attract the weird ones who won’t give up.
But you know some of us are ok 😉August 23, 2021 at 11:25 pm #16331MParticipant
This is why I’m scared to try it out tbh, I’m a total novice!August 23, 2021 at 11:36 pm #16333CraigParticipant
Same here. I’ve had a couple of dodgy experiences with sites like FabGuys but nothing like this before. Just gotta stay optimistic and make a leap of faith.August 23, 2021 at 11:59 pm #16334AnonymousInactive
I’m sure there are more nicer guys then weirdos! Hopefully anyway! I’m counting down to Thursday lolAugust 24, 2021 at 12:16 am #16335FitSilverFoxParticipant
Feeling sorry for you younger guys who are only seen as ‘new meat’ by some guys who can’t take a hint. Be bold … just say ‘No thanks, I’m not interested’ That should be enough for most hangers on. We’ve all had our first time in the sauna and felt daunted – mine was only a few years back and I was already a Silver Fox LOL – but keep at it. Say ‘Hi’ to me, (Fri onwards) or other guys who seem approachable … but above all, just enjoy being there for what YOU want out of it.August 24, 2021 at 10:44 pm #16351AnonymousInactive
I’m sure you’re next visit will be fun. Third time lucky 😉August 24, 2021 at 11:17 pm #16352RyanParticipant
If your there Saturday night I’d love to meet up as quite nervous. Im on fab swingers but not fab guys but can maybe hop on if your up for it?August 26, 2021 at 12:03 am #16378FitSilverFoxParticipant
@ Ryan Sure, I’m pretty much sure I’ll be there Sat night. I’m on Fabswingers. What’s your profile name?August 26, 2021 at 7:18 am #16381SIPParticipant
Fit slim older guy here and happy to help out any nervous first timers . Free this weekend and on Kik as Riverflow27November 15, 2021 at 9:35 am #17181LeeBeeParticipant
My first time was nerve wracking too I was one of the youngest there, early 30s. As a bi curios guy (at the time) I was looking to finally take the plunge. My nerves really did get the better of me, I was far to nervous about removing my towel and I spent most the time running out of rooms as soon as a guy even looked at me. I was turned on though, finally I did pluck up some courage in the steam room, where one guy maybe in his 50s sat down next to me, we started chatting, he seemed nice and eventually and started rubbing my leg, with my heart throbbing I just sat there still and eventually he gave me a hand job. Rather embarrassingly I lasted about 30 seconds and then left.
I was so glad I went though, no feelings of regret and I’ve been back many times since and done all manner of things. 2nd time was much easier as I knew a bit more of what to expect.
I’ve since seen that first guy again and returned the favour in several ways.
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