I’m currently in the same position – never been before, straight/bi curious with a girlfriend, looking to experiment and experience.
Meant to be in town on Wednesday with work as well, if you fancied meeting up and maybe heading together? Or having some fun first to break the ice and then heading round if we still felt up for it?
I’ve been twice. Through the week during the day. I think next time I’ll ggo into a public area and position myself so my oiled ring piece is available for all.