Going by your username, if you are shy, treat it like a regular sauna. Relax in the hot tub, enjoy the steam room, go in the steam room, things like that. If you happen to have sex, then fine, but treat it as a bonus, not a requirement.
I think the three main areas you’re not allowed any real stuff is the cafe, the upstairs TV room and the locker room. I could be wrong however, but pre lockdown those are the areas I never saw anything happen.
If anyone wants to be shown around I’ll be down tomorrow about 12, hit me up on kik at BleedYouDry and we can arrange something
Btw I’m cis and bi so as long as you have a hole you want filled I’m cool with anything 😉
I was the same today, really nervous until I got in and realised everyone else was there for the same reason. Once you see all the other naked men, it really sets you at ease, and it didn’t take me long to start sucking and fucking