Hi,
I’m bi and married, looking to visit for the first time this coming Thursday afternoon. Never been to a sauna before and was hoping someone may be able to advise me of the etiquette or accepted practices please. May seem a little naive but how do you know someone is interested or what is the best way of showing interest?
Thanks in advance,
Paul
Generally if a guys interested he will try and make eye contact with you or if you’re passing in the corridor they may brush past you but if you’re not interested it’s not rude to blank them . If someone’s persistent just quietly tell them no and they will back off. It’s a pretty relaxed place staff are really friendly and will show you round if you ask. Always someone around to chat to as you find your feet and settle in
Some are really obvious, the accidental touching of legs/feet just to see if you jump away, some are more straight forward, give you a touch and if you don’t mind ask you if u want to go a room, it’s up to you yes or no..
Sorry for the late reply. Despite my nerves it went well thanks. Staff were very welcoming which relaxed me a little. I kept my jock on under my towel and sat in the steam room for what seemed like ages. Nerves intensified when a nice, older guy sat close next to me before getting up and looking back at me. I followed him up the stairs and spent the next 40 minutes with him. Very nice. Went home happy and drained.