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Hi, 40 year old straight male here, curious & contemplating a first visit.
With that in mind, are there any unwritten rules or expectations I ought to be aware of?
I’m a Top by temperament, is there an accepted means by which I’d communicate this to other members without risking causing offence? Is it a case of wearing a locker band around the wrist for Tops and around the ankle for Bottoms, or do you have to wait until making an approach or being approached to mention it?
On a similar note, what if any are the expectations for reciprocity? Am I expected to do for others what I’ve had them do for me? I’m primarily interested in meeting slim sub bottoms & cds/sissies aged 18-35 who would enoy being used without receiving anything in return.
Would my selfishness in not returning any favours done me be viewed as totally unacceptable, or are there sauna members who might be happy to be treated in such a way?
Apologies for all the questions & thanks in advance for any answers.
Just go in and enjoy yourself you will soon learn what can and cannot be done. If you approach someone and they don’t like you they will soon let you know by snubbing you. ENJOY !!!!
Tops are always in demand. If someone is interested they’ll probably make it very obvious. If you’re not interested just say ‘no thanks’ politely. Best advice is to relax and see what happens.
Thanks for the reply redsearcher, sounds like the best way for me to learn is by just getting in there and giving it a go.
If I don’t try it, I’ll never know, one way or the other.
Thanks for responding to my query and for the advice JG (although as a first timer, relaxing may be easier said than done!)
You sound like exactly my kind of bloke.
28, slim, smooth, submissive bottom here.
Hi there throatfuck_me, thanks for the compliment.
By the sounds of it, you could be just my type too. Not that I’ve much idea what that even is yet…
( just read your other post in the Sauna Discussion tbread with you looking for a sfraight/bi guy to deepthroat)
Maybe we can bump into each other and you can show me what I’ve been missing.
I’m very submissive, like my throat used like a pussy.
Are you on anything else where we could get to know each other?
Hi, throatfuck_me,
I’ve just set-up a kik account after seeing the app mentioned here when browsing other threads.
You can find me there as AlexDeAverage.
Thanks again for your interest.
@crunchmanippples how big is your cock? You dominant?
i think alot of bottoms just get off on being used, just state what you want and im sure you will be fine..
there was an idea that tops do wrists on bottoms do ankles but i dont think its actually a thing, although a very good idea
if you dont like someone always you have every right to say no thanks politely and move on, i was wary about this when i first went but the guys who frequent the sauna know the score
Hi a, and thanks for taking the time and trouble to reply to my post.
What’s your add?
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