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Hi I went for my first time last week..
I enjoyed it and had a few encounters but what is the rules on if someone is interested or not .is there a way to show you are interested I’m not sure if you can show you are Dom or sub .do you just start touching them or sucking .is the cinema the best place to start please can someone guide me …Eye contact, openly wanking, chatting, touching. All the usual things. If they’re lying with their arse in the air you may assume they’re open to an intimate approach. If you make a move and they don’t clearly refuse, they’re sufficiently interested for you to continue. Touching in any way is an invitation, especially when repeated or maintained.
Think how _you_ would indicate to someone that you are interested: you make eye contact, smile, chat, rub your cock, show your cock, flirt, wiggle your bum…
Acceptable responses are to make your move. If you’re wrong it’s just a misunderstanding and they’ll let you know (politely, I hope).All areas are suitable for signalling initial interest, though it’s generally frowned upon to go naked in the bar or fuck in the television room. Cinema room and private rooms are good because people openly wank (if they stop it means they’re not interested in you), jacuzzi, steam room and sauna are good for casual touching…
If they’re lying in the sling or a gloryhole they areclearly asking for action, so make your move.When I first started going went in the steam room and several guys started sucking me off without even asking.Found that very very horny.Then just progressed to the private rooms from there.
If someone shows interest and you are not interested then simply give him flat hands indication, and he should gracefully retreat. Its a polite way of saying no, and in places such as this, no means just that. But if someone approaches and you like what you see, stand with your feet apart and put your hands on your head, inviting him to remove your towel or clothing then intimately touch and feel, making it cleat that his advances are welcome. Having allowed him to touch you, he will expect the same in return, then see where it leads!
Someone local’s last message has got me going, I’m working from hohome and my hand is NOT on the works keyboard !
Silver01 wish I was on my knees under your desk with my mouth open ready for when you get aroused, unzip, take your throbbing cock out and guide it between my lips …. people ask “do I swallow” my answer is always “that’s not for me to decide” 😵
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